He stood like a lonely Statue of Liberty, holding his lighter aloft, its flame flickering in the darkness. An actual cigarette lighter, not a pale imitation cellphone flashlight.
You should have seen by the look in my eyes, baby
There was something missin’
He swayed. Silent. Stoic.
You should have known by the tone in my voice, maybe
But you didn’t listen
The Thursday night crowd at Northern Quest Resort and Casino had already come unglued as REO Speedwagon unleashed “In Your Letter “ and “Keep Pushin’,” but something tells me the fan with the lighter had been waiting for “Keep on Loving You.”
Like any iconic rock band, REO Speedwagon knew fans had come to hear their hits and to bask in the memories that their music brings. And Lighter Guy, lost in his own world, was as my kids say, feeling “all the feels.”
And I’m gonna keep on lovin’ you
’Cause it’s the only thing I want to do
I don’t want to sleep, I just want to keep on lovin’ you
By the time the chorus rolled around, most of the sold-out crowd, including Derek and I, stood with Lighter Guy, belting out the lyrics.
When my husband saw REO Speedwagon was coming to Northern Quest, he quickly scooped up tickets. After all, the band was at its zenith when Derek graduated from high school in 1981. There’s nothing like a blast of music from the past to make you feel young again.
With evangelistic zeal, lead singer Kevin Cronin whipped the middle-aged crowd into a frenzy – especially the super fan across the aisle from us. She whooped. She hollered. She pogo-jumped up and down and her air guitar skills were impressive.
“Rock ’n’ roll will keep you young forever!” Cronin hollered.
“Or else it kills you,” Derek said, shouting in my ear.
That was the last thing I actually heard him say for quite a while. It was the first time I’d wished for earplugs at a concert since Def Leppard played the Spokane Arena in 2017. Everything sounded like I was underwater no matter how many times I tried to pop my ears.
About four songs into the evening, things began to sound clearer.
“I think my ears are adjusting,” I said.
“What?” Derek replied. “I can’t hear you. They are really loud!”
Despite the decibel level, the band sounded great, but it was the crowd that truly made the show. In addition to Lighter Guy and Air Guitar Lady, Baseball Cap Gal, in front of us, was a hoot to watch.
With her curly hair pulled through the back of her ball cap, she looked to be having the time of her life. She rocked. She bounced. She shook her gray-streaked ponytail like the teenager she used to be. And she knew the lyrics to every single song, even “Tough Guys.”
We didn’t mind her exuberance a bit, as she was a tad on the short side.
“Oh, hey, I didn’t realize she was standing up,” said Derek.
However, one fan’s enthusiasm kept getting the better of her. She doggedly danced down the aisle to the front of the stage, only to be repeatedly danced back by a long-suffering, very patient member of the security team.
At one point she found Air Guitar Lady and they linked arms, attempting to lead her to worship at the altar of their rock gods.
A woman behind us leaned forward.
“That’s not going to end well,” she said.
Sure enough, moments later, Air Guitar Lady was back in her row, while Mosh Pit Hopeful was escorted to the nether regions.
You have to admire a band that inspires that kind of devotion decades after their last chart-topping hit.
REO Speedwagon still delivers a fantastic, high-energy show. “Ride the Storm Out” shook the room, and the crowd eagerly offered vocal assistance on “Can’t Fight This Feeling” and “Take it on the Run.”
Keep in mind these guys aren’t exactly teenagers. Kevin Cronin is 67, bassist Bruce Hall is 65, and founding member, keyboardist Neal Doughty is 72, yet they blazed through their entire set list, plus encores, without a break.
Who knows? Maybe rock ’n’ roll really does keep you young forever.